Tagged Title : UnGu - Tercipta Untukku

Kelakar betul tyme jwb soalan2 ntah ape2 ni....

RULES:

1. Put your iTunes, Windows Media Player, etc. on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. You must write that song name down NO MATTER HOW silly it sounds.
4. Put any comments in brackets after the song name.
5. Put this on your journal / blog.

1. If someone says, “Is this okay?” … you say?
BSB - Everybody
[everybody in UMP r lazy rite now bcoz raining..haha]

2. How would you describe yourself?
Sam Milby – My Girl
[ingtkn lagu ni OST My Girl,citer korea tu]

3. What do you like in a girl?
BSB ft N Sync – Let Music Heal Your Soul
[girl is sensitive in her soul]

4. How do you feel today?
BSB - As Long As You Love Me
[great bcoz above...hehehe]

5.What is your life’s purpose?
BSB - Get DOwn
[Do not get down in hatever I do]

6. What is your motto?
Jason Mraz - I'm Yours
[To be yours..weeeeee]

7. What do your friends think of you?
BSB - Drowning
[mmg tgh drowning pon... ]

8. What do you think of your parents?
Ungu - Cinta Dalam Hati
[They r always be my 'cinta dalam hati']

9. What do you think about very often?
BSB - Incomplete
[My incomplete work every time]

10. What is 2 + 2?
BSB - Show me the meaning of being lonely
[2 + 2 pon x tahu..sesuai la lagu ni...]


11. What do you think of your best friend?
Lee Sung Wook - Destiny
[It is a destiny u become my frenz.]

12. What do you think of the person you like?
Sheila On 7 - Betapa
[dia minat band ni....wonder who??]

13. What is your life story?
BSB - The Call
[the call that change my destiny]

14. What do you want to be when you grow up?
KISS - Because I'm a woman
[I'm a girl, not yet a woman..lalala~]

15. What do you think of when you see the person you like?
BSB - Larger than Life
[yeah...my happiness is larger than life when seeing that person]

16. What will you dance to at your wedding?
Mario n Nasty - Never Say Goodbye
[x fhm soalan...sory ler]

17. What will they play at your funeral?
Yoichiro Sakuraba - Hitoribochi no haburashi
[ape daa...nk suh tambah dose ke?bce fatihah laa...yaasin ke]

18.What is your hobby/interest?
Jason Mraz- I'm Lucky
[I'm lucky to do anything..kui3]

19. What is your biggest fear?
Ryu - My Memory
[yeah...my memory a long tyme ago...sob3]

20. What is your biggest secret?
ABBA - Chiquitita
[Chiquitita..u know what it is?haha...secret..xleh bg tau r]

21. What do you think of your friends?
Pierce Brosnan, Meryl Streep - S.O.S
[always come to save me when S.O.S]

22. What will you post this as?
Ungu - Tercipta Untukku
[mmg tercipta untukku kene tag!!]

Next person tagged...

1) Fatin Nurasyikin
2) Mohd Faiz
3) Adib - Dark Kurosagi
4) Izzah

ChiQuiTiT@ ~AbBa~

Chiquitita, tell me whats wrong
Youre enchained by your own sorrow
In your eyes there is no hope for tomorrow
How I hate to see you like this
There is no way you can deny it
I can see that youre oh so sad, so quiet

Chiquitita, tell me the truth
Im a shoulder you can cry on
Your best friend, Im the one you must rely on
You were always sure of yourself
Now I see youve broken a feather
I hope we can patch it up together

Chiquitita, you and I know
How the heartaches come and they go and the scars theyre leaving
Youll be dancing once again and the pain will end
You will have no time for grieving
Chiquitita, you and I cry
But the sun is still in the sky and shining above you
Let me hear you sing once more like you did before
Sing a new song, chiquitita
Try once more like you did before
Sing a new song, chiquitita

So the walls came tumbling down
And your loves a blown out candle
All is gone and it seems too hard to handle
Chiquitita, tell me the truth
There is no way you can deny it
I see that youre oh so sad, so quiet

Chiquitita, you and I know
How the heartaches come and they go and the scars theyre leaving
Youll be dancing once again and the pain will end
You will have no time for grieving
Chiquitita, you and I cry
But the sun is still in the sky and shining above you
Let me hear you sing once more like you did before
Sing a new song, chiquitita
Try once more like you did before
Sing a new song, chiquitita
Try once more like you did before

Sing a new song, chiquitita

S.O.S ~AbBa~

Where are those happy days, they seem so hard to find
I tried to reach for you, but you have closed your mind
Whatever happened to our love?
I wish I understood
It used to be so nice, it used to be so good

So when youre near me, darling cant you hear me
S. o. s.
The love you gave me, nothing else can save me
S. o. s.
When youre gone
How can I even try to go on?
When youre gone
Though I try how can I carry on?

You seem so far away though you are standing near
You made me feel alive, but something died I fear
I really tried to make it out
I wish I understood
What happened to our love, it used to be so good

So when youre near me, darling cant you hear me
S. o. s.
The love you gave me, nothing else can save me
S. o. s.
When youre gone
How can I even try to go on?
When youre gone
Though I try how can I carry on?

So when youre near me, darling cant you hear me
S. o. s.
And the love you gave me, nothing else can save me
S. o. s.
When youre gone
How can I even try to go on?
When youre gone
Though I try how can I carry on?
When youre gone
How can I even try to go on?
When youre gone
Though I try how can I carry on?

Persoalan anak kepada emak

Saya bertanya kepada emak, “mana satu pilihan hati, orang yang sayangkan kita atau yang kita sayang? ”Mak jawab, “dua-dua bukan..”Saya tercengang.. Mak mengukir senyuman.“Pilihan hati mak adalah yang sayangkan kita kerana Allah..” Saya menarik nafas dalam-dalam.“Macam mana nak tau orang tu sayang kita kerana apa?” Mak diam sekejap berfikir dan kemudian tersenyum.Rasanya mak dapat menduga apa yang sedang bermain dalam hati anak perempuannya. Mana mungkin saya mampu menyorokkan rahsia hati dari mak sedangkan sekilas saya pun mak mampu membacanya. “Yang paling tahu hanya Allah..” mak merenung dalam-dalam wajah anaknya. “Kerana hanya Allah mampu membaca hati hambaNya.. ” mak menyusun ayat-ayatnya. “Dan keikhlasan kerana Allah itu akan terserlah keberkatannya tanpa perlu sengaja ditonjokan oleh seseorang tu..”

Saya memintas, “Tak faham..”Mak menyambung “Cinta di dalam jalan Allah.. Bertemu kerana sama-sama mencari redha Allah..” Mak menyambung lagi, “begini, setiap insan yang bergelar manusia telah Allah ciptakan berpasang-pasangan. Rasa ingin dikasihi antara seorang suami dan isteri suatu fitrah. Automatik boleh ada daya tarikan magnet tu..” Wajah saya merah, sedikit cemas jika mak dapat mengesan gelora jiwa muda ini.. Mak menyambung “Setiap manusia telah Allah tetapkan rezeki,jodoh dan maut sejak azali lagi..Persoalannya ialah..Siapakah jodohnya itu?” mak berhenti seketika. Saya tunduk malu, cuba menyorokkan rasa panas di pipi. Emak buat-buat tidak nampak.

Secret Admire

“Kakak, mak dulu masa remaja ada secret admire.. Rajin betul dia hantar surat ..Masa tu mak dah tahu yang bercinta sebelum kahwin ni tak halal..Dan masa tu mak tekad tak mahu layan sebab mak takut arwah tokwan kena seksa dalam kubur.. Mak sedar mak anak yatim, anak orang miskin, adik beradik ramai.. Mak nak belajar sungguh-sungguh. . Lama budak tu tunggu mak..Akhirnya mak bagi kata putus, mak hanya akan membalas cinta dia jika dia sah suami mak.. Dan dia memang bukan jodoh mak, maka tak pernah dia menerima balasan cinta tu.” Mak merenung jauh. Saya merapatkan badan kepada emak, semakin berminat dengan kisah lama mak..“Mak memang tak ada perasaan lansung pada dia ke?” saya menyoal sambil memandang tajam wajah mak.

Emak ketawa kecil. “Walaupun mungkin ada, mak tak pernah bagi peluang pada diri mak untuk mengisytiharkan perasaan tu..Mak takut pada Allah. Mak bukan seperti rakan sebaya mak yang lain.. Mak, seperti kakak..” mak memandang saya sambil memegang pipi dan dagu saya.Kemudian tangannya mengusap rambut di kepala saya.“Mak anak ustaz ustazah.. Tapi zaman tu ustaz ustazah nya masih berkebaya pendek dan ketat. Tok wan mak kiyai. Mungkin berkat doa keturunan sebelum ni yang soleh-soleh, hati mak tertarik sangat pada agama walaupun tiada sesiapa yang mendorong.. Bila di sekolah, mak pelajar pertama yang bertudung.. Mak membawa imej agama. Kawan-kawan dan cikgu-cikgu panggil mak dengan gelaran mak Aji.. Sebab zaman tu hujung 70an dan awal 80an tak ramai lagi yang bertudung betul menutup auratnya..Zaman tudung nipis dan nampak jambul. Kemudian kawan-kawan mak sikit-sikit ikut bertudung.Akhirnya kami semua dipanggil di perhimpunan. Kami dimarah guru besar kerana bertudung sedangkan ustazah kami bertudung tapi nampak jambulnya..”emak melemparkan pandangan ke lantai. “Selepas tu ustazah jumpa kami secara persendirian. Ustazah kata dia tak mampu nak pakai seperti kami. Dia suruh kami teruskan..” sambung emak. Ada getar di hujung suara emak.

Kisah silam perjuangan emak di sekolah dahulu sikit-sikit emak ceritakan pada saya.Itulah juga salah satu inspirasi kepada saya untuk bangkit semula setiap kali terjatuh ketika berjuang di sekolah dulu.“Mungkin kerana personaliti mak, mak menjadi tempat rujukan kawan-kawan mak.. Jadi, bila mak nak ambil sesuatu tindakan, mak kena fikir betul-betul sama ada tindakan mak tu akan menyebabkan Allah marah atau tidak. Mak ayah berdosa tak? Dan maruah pembawa agama terjejas tak? Kalau mak membalas cinta si lelaki tadi, bermakna mak sedang menconteng arang di muka-muka pembawa-pembawa agama. Orang akan pandang serong terhadap orang yang bertudung sedangkan kesilapan tu hanya seorang dua yang buat. Besar fitnah akan timbul apabila orang-orang agama mengambil ringan batas syariat duhai anak..” mak menelan air liurnya. Saya diam.

Fikiran saya sedang cuba memahami maksud mak saya.Adakah ia suatu diskriminasi?“Kakak.. Jatuh cinta perkara biasa. Apabila kita jatuh cinta pada seseorang, itu tandanya ada sesuatu keistimewaan pada seseorang tu. Apatah lagi orang yang kita jatuh cinta tu di atas jalan dakwah ni..Tetapi kita kena ingat.. Kita tak akan dikahwinkan dengan seseorang atas sebab jatuh cinta atau saling cinta mencintai.. Bercouple mungkin.. Tetapi bukan berkahwin… Kerana kita berkahwin dengan jodoh kita, jodoh yang Allah dah tetapkan sejak azali.. Dan tak mustahil orang yang kita paling benci itulah jodoh kita yang kita akan dikahwinkan dengannya..”

Tiba-tiba air mata saya mengalir. Argh! Ego saya kalah bila mendengar hujah emak. Emak meneruskan, “Allah itu Maha Adil.. Dia tak pernah menzalimi hambaNya..Sesungguh nya, yang selalu menzalimi hambaNya ialah diri hamba tu sendiri.. Sebabnyam hamba tu degil. Dia mahukan yang bukan haknya, yang bukan milik dia.Mencintai seseorang tidak semestinya memilikinya.Dalam Islam, kita dah diajar untuk saling mencintai antara satu sama lain seperti diri sendiri.. Jadi apabila kita mencintai saudara perempuan, kita bebas peluk dia. Tetapi bila dengan lelaki, kita ada batas-batasnya. Orang kafir kata batas-batas ini suatu diskriminasi, tetapi sebenarnya batas-batas syariat itulah yang memelihara kehormatan seorang lelaki dan seorang perempuan. Cuba kakak renungkan, kita mengenali seorang insan yang amat baik, sempurna agamanya dan rajin. Lalu kita jatuh hati padanya.Ditakdirkan jodohnya dengan insan lain, kita pula dengan yang lain.. Tetapi itu tidak bermakna ukhwah antara kita dan dia terputus.. Kita dan dia sama-sama mencari redha Allah.. Kita dan dia masih boleh sama-sama bekerjasama untuk mencari redha Allah.. Perbezaannya, dia halal untuk isterinya sedangkan untuk kita, dia tetap lelaki ajnabi seperti yang awalnya.” emak berhenti seketika..Bukan luar biasaTentu kering tekak emak menerangkan kepada saya persoalan hati ini.

“Kakak.. jadi di sini mak nak kakak faham, jatuh cinta bukan perkara luar biasa..Dan berkahwin pun bukan suatu jaminan untuk tak jatuh cinta pada lelaki lain.. Kerana itulah ramai isteri yang curang, suami yang curang..Ada orang tukar pasangan macam tukar baju. Apa yang penting ialah kita kena perjelaskan pada diri kita supaya setiap kali kita jatuh cinta, jatuh cinta itu kerana kita jatuh cinta kepada Pencipta dia. Kita bagi tau pada diri kita berulang kali yang kita mencintai Allah, kerana itu kita mencintai si dia. Letakkan Allah sebagai sempadan hati kita, segala perkara yang kita cintai dan sayangi termasuk mak abah adalah kerana mencintai Allah.. Dan apabila kita membenci seseorang atau sesuatu, beri tahu pada diri sendiri berulangkali yang kita benci sekian-sekian hal kerana Allah semata-mata. .”
“Kakak.. Hati kita ni walaupun dalam dada kita sendiri, ia tetap bukan milik kita. Kita tak mampu untuk mengawalnya. . Hanya Allah yang boleh memegangnya. . Sebab tu kita kena dekatkan diri dengan Allah.. Sebab kita nak dia pegang kukuh-kukuh hati kita. Bila dia pelihara dan masuk dalam hati kita, itulah nikmat lazatnnya bercinta. Masa tu biarpun satu dunia menyakiti kita, kita tak rasa sakit sebab kita asyik dengan nikmat bercinta dengan Allah..Bercinta dengan Allah sangat berbeza dari bercinta dengan manusia. Kerana tentulah pegalaman bercinta dengan lelaki kaya,rupawan, sempurna dan bijaksana tak sama rasanya bercinta dengan lelaki miskin, hodoh,cacat dan dungu.. Betapa nikmatnya cinta Allah, hanya mereka yang pernah merasai sahaja yang mampu mengerti.”

Redha

“Kakak.. Walau siapapun jodoh yang Allah hantarkan untuk kakak, terimalah dengan hati yang redha.. Tak mustahil dia adalah orang yang kita benci.Kalau yang kakak sayang, tak jadi hal lah.. Tapi kalau dapat yang kakak tak nak, lantaran kelemahan yang ada pada dia, ingatlah bahawa dalam diri setiap insan telah Allah ciptakan dengan kelebihan masing-masing. Dan mungkin kakak ada kekuatan yang dapat mengubah si lelaki tadi supaya hidup dia bermakna dan mungkin kakak sahaja yang mampu mencungkil kelebihan yang ada pada dia.. Mungkin juga si lelaki ini ada sesuatu kelebihan yang kakak sangat-sangat perlukan yang satu dunia tak mampu bagi pada kakak.. Alangkah bertuahnya kakak kalau kakak mengerti setiap pemberian Allah dan belajar untuk bersyukur.. ” Sekali lagi berjuraian air mata saya turun. Terasa lemah lutut hendak berdiri.Emak menarik tubuh saya dan memeluk erat. Pelukan emak sangat-sangat kuat.“Emak dah didik anak emak dari belum lahir untuk mencintai Allah.. Sekarang emak serahkan anak emak yang mak sayang sangat ni pada Allah untuk Dia pelihara..” Emak mengakhiri kata-katanya dengan suara sebak dan air mata yang mengalir ke bahu saya.

Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal…

UNGU-CinTa DalaM Hati

mungkin ini memang jalan takdirku
mengagumi tanpa di cintai
tak mengapa bagiku asal kau pun bahagia
dengan hidupmu, dengan hidupmu

telah lama kupendam perasaan itu
menunggu hatimu menyambut diriku
tak mengapa bagiku cintaimu pun adalah
bahagia untukku, bahagia untukku

reff:
ku ingin kau tahu diriku di sini menanti dirimu
meski ku tunggu hingga ujung waktuku
dan berharap rasa ini kan abadi untuk selamanya
dan ijinkan aku memeluk dirimu kali ini saja
tuk ucapkan selamat tinggal untuk selamanya
dan biarkan rasa ini bahagia untuk sekejap saja

repeat reff

Kisah Wanita Yang Pertama Masuk Syurga Sebelum Fatimah R.A.

Dalam sebuah hadis menceritakan, setengah daripada kegemaran Rasulullah S.A.W. ialah suka bergurau senda dengan kaum keluarganya dengan gurauan yang sopan dan memberi faedah.

Pada suatu hari ketika Rasulullah S.A.W. sedang bercakap dengan anaknya Siti Fatimah mengenai kenikmatan syurga dan orang-orang yang akan dikurniakan tinggal di dalam syurga, maka baginda pun bersabda, "Ayuhai anakandaku, ada seorang perempuan kebanyakan yang akan masuk syurga lebih dahulu daripada anakanda."

Mendengar kata-kata ayahandanya itu, maka berubahlah air mukanya lantas dia pun menangis dan berkata, "Siapakah perempuan itu ayahanda? Macam mana halnya dan bagaimana pula amalannya sehingga dia dapat lebih dahulu ke dalam syurga daripada anakanda? Ayahanda khabarkanlah di mana dia sekarang?"

Lalu Rasulullah S.A.W. berkata, "Dia adalah seorang wanita yang miskin, tinggal di Jabal Uhud, kira-kira 3 batu dari Madinah."

Tanpa membuang masa, Siti Fatimah pun keluar pergi mencari perempuan yang dikatakan akan masuk syurga lebih dahulu daripadanya.

Setelah dia sampai ke rumah orang itu, dia pun mengetuk pintunya. Kemudian perempuan itu pun keluar sambil bertanyakan hajat kedatangannya tanpa menjemput Siti Fatimah masuk ke dalam rumahnya.

Siti Fatimah berkata, "Saya datang ke mari kerana hendak berjumpa dan berkenalan dengan awak."

Perempuan itu menjawab, "Terima kasih cik, tetapi saya tidak dapat membenarkan cik masuk kerana suami saya tidak ada di rumah. Nanti saya minta izin apabila dia balik nanti, silalah datang pada esok hari."

Dengan perasaan sedih dan dukacita, Siti Fatimah pulang dengan perasaan hampa kerana tidak dapat masuk dan bercakap panjang dengan perempuan itu.

Besoknya, Siti Fatimah datang lagi dengan membawa anaknya yang bernama Hasan. Sebaik sahaja sampai di rumah wanita itu dan setelah pintu dibuka dan hendak dipersilakan masuk, tiba-tiba dia melihat ada budak bersama-sama Siti Fatimah, lalu dia berkata, "Ini siapa?" tanyanya kepada Siti Fatimah.

"Ini anak saya, Hasan." Sahut Siti Fatimah. Perempuan itu pin berkata, "Saya dukacita cik kerana saya belum minta keizinan masuk dari suami saya."

Siti Fatimah menjadi serba salah. Hendak balik jauh, hendak ditinggalkan anaknya di luar, nanti dia menangis. Hendak dibawa masuk belum mendapat keizinan. Akhirnya dia pun balik.

Keesokan harinya, dia datang lagi dengan membawa kedua-dua anaknya iaitu Hasan dan Husin. Setibanya mereka di perkarangan rumah perempuan itu, mereka segera disambut olehnya, tetapi dia terkejut apabila memandang ada budak lain pula yang belum diminta izin dari suaminya.

Beliau pun berkata, "Cik dukacita kerana budak yang satu ini belum saya minta izin, harap maaf cik." Mendengarkan kata-kata itu, Siti Fatimah tersipu-sipu menyahut, "Baiklah. Besok saya datang lagi ke mari."

Dalam perjalanan pulang ke rumah, hatinya berkata-kata, "Heh, perempuan ini takut sangat akan suaminya, sehingga perkara yang begini pun dia tidak berani melakukannya. Pada hal jika dia benarkan aku masuk, takkanlah suaminya marah. Tak usahlah pandang aku ini siapa, dan dua budak ini cucu siapa, pandanglah kepada tetamu dan orang jauh, sudahlah," bisik hatinya sambil menangis teresak-esak.

Dalam pada itu, sebaik sahaja suaminya pulang, perempuan itu pun memberitahu tentang budak yang satu lagi itu. Suaminya terkejut dan hairan sambil berkata, "Kenapa awak tahan sampai begitu sekali? Bukankah Siti Fatimah itu puteri Rasulullah S.A.W. dan dua orang anaknya itu cucu Rasulullah? Lebih daripada itu pun awak patut benarkan kerana keselamatan kita berdua kelak bergantung pada keredhaannya (Rasulullah S.A.W.). Jangan awak buat seperti itu lagi. Jika mereka datang lagi ke mari dengan membawa apa pun dan siapa pun, terimalah dengan baik, dan awak hormatlah mereka semua sebagaimana yang patut bagi darjat mereka."

Sahut isterinya pula, "Baiklah, tetapi ampunkanlah kesalahan saya kerana saya mengerti bahawa keselamatn diri saya ini bergantung pada keredhaan awak, suami saya. Oleh itu, saya tidak berani membuat perkara yang akan membawa kemarahan atau menyakiti hati awak."

"Terima kasih," sahut suaminya, "tapi takkanlah pula sampai awak tidak menerima tetamu perempuan melainkan dengan setahu saya, kerana menghormatkan tetamu perempuan itu wajib pada adapt dan agama."

Pada hari seterusnya, Siti Fatimah datang lagi dengan membawakedua orang puteranya itu. Setelah diterimadan dihormatkan mengikut adapt kampong dengan dijamu sedikit buah kurma dan air, mereka pun memulakan perbualan.

Dalam pada itu, perempuan itu berjalan kea rah muka pintu rumahnya sambil memandang ke arah jalan seolah-olah sedang menantikan kedatangan seseorang dengan tidak begitu mempedulikan Siti Fatimah. Sambil itu, Siti Fatimah terlihat di tangannya terdapat sebatang tongkat dan sebuah bekas berisi air, manakala tangan sebelah lagi mengangkat hujung kainnya sehingga ke atas sehingga menampakkan betis dan sedikit pehanya dan mukanya manis dengan senyuman.

Melihatkan keadaan perempuan itu, Siti Fatimah berasa resah kerana dia anak-beranak langsung tidak dipedulikan. Lantas dia pun bertanya, "Kenapa jadi begini?" Sahut perempuan itu, "Cik, harap maafkan saya kerana saya sedang menantikan suami saya yang akan pulang ke rumah."

"Buat apa dengan bekas air itu?" tanya Siti Fatimah.

Jawabnya, "Kiranya suami saya dahaga pada ketika dia balik, saya akan segera menghulurkan air ini kepadanya supaya tidak terlambat. Jika terlambat nanti dia akan marah."

Kemudian Siti Fatimah bertanya lagi, "Buat apa pula tongkat itu?"

"Jika suami saya marah, mudahlah dia memukuli saya dengan tongkat ini," jawab perempuan itu.

Kemudian Siti Fatimah bertanya lagi, "Kenapa pula awak selak kain awak sehingga nampak aurat? Bukankah itu haram?"

Maka perempuan itu menjawab, "Jika dia berkehendakkan saya, lalu dia pandang saya begini tentulah menambahkan syahwat dan nafsunya yang memudahkan kepada maksudnya."

Sebaik sahaja habis perempuan itu bercakap, Siti Fatimah termenung dengan hairan, lalu berkata kepada dirinya sendiri, "Jika begini kelakuan dan perangainya terhadap suaminya, tidaklah dapat aku mengikutnya. Patutlah dia masuk syurga lebih dahulu daripada aku serta wanita-wanita lain. Ternyata benarlah bahawa keselamatan seorang perempuan yang bersuami itu bergantung kepada ketaatan kepada suami dan keredhaan suami terhadapnya."

Sambil teresak-esak menagis dan enitiskan air matanya, kemudian Siti Fatimah minta diri dan pulang dengan segera dan terus mengadap ayahandanya, Rasulullah S.A.W.

Sebaik sahaja dia mengadap ayahandanya, dia pun berkata, "Anakanda berasa sangat sedih dan lemah segala sendi anakanda kerana tidak dapat meniru dan melakukan sebagaimana perangai dan amalan perempuan yang ayahanda ceritakan itu."

Sebaik sahaja Rasulullah S.A.W. mendengar rintihan anakandanya itu, lalu baginda tersenyum lantas bersabda, "Anakanda, janganlah susah hati, perempuan yang anakanda jumpa itu ialah perempuan yang akan memimpin dan memegang tali ras kendali tunggangan anakanda tatkala masuk ke syurga. Jadi dialah yang masuk lebih dahulu." Setelah mendengar penjelasan itu, barulah siti Fatimah tersenyum ketawa.

Wanita Menangis

Suatu ketika, ada seorang anak lelaki yang bertanya kepada ibunya.

"Ibu, mengapa ibu menangis?"
Ibunya menjawab, "Sebab ibu wanita."
Dia tidak mengerti, kata si anak lagi.
Ibunya hanya tersenyum dan memeluknya erat.
"Nak, kamu memang tidak akan mengerti..."

Kemudian, anak itu bertanya kepada ayahnya.
"Ayah, mengapa ibu menangis?"
Sang ayah menjawab, "Semua wanita memang menangis tanpa ada alasan."
Hanya itu jawapan yang dapat diberikan oleh ayahnya.

Lama kemudian, si anak itu menjadi remaja dan tetap bertanya-tanya, mengapa wanita menangis. Pada suatu malam, ia bermimpi dan mendapat petunjuk daripada Allah mengapa wanita mudah sekali menangis.

Saat Allah menciptakan wanita, Dia membuat menjadi sangat penting.

Allah ciptakan bahunya, agar mampu menahan seluruh beban dunia dan isinya. Walaupun, bahu itu cukup nyaman dan lembut untuk menahan kepala bayi yang sedang tidur.

Allah berikan wanita kekuatan untuk melahirkan zuriat dari rahimnya. Dan sering kali pula menerima cerca daripada anaknya sendiri.

Allah berikan ketabahan yang membuatnya tetap bertahan, pantang menyerah di saat semua orang berputus asa.

Wanita, Allah berikan kesabaran, untuk merawat keluarganya walau letih, sakit, lelah dan tanpa berkeluh-kesah.

Allah berikan wanita, perasaan peka dan kasih sayang untuk mencintai semua anaknya, dalam situasi apa pun. Biarpun anak-anaknya kerap melukai perasaan dan hatinya.

Perasaan ini memberikan kehangatan kepada anak-anaknya yang ingin tidur. Sentuhan lembutnya memberi keselesaan dan ketenangan.

Dia berikan wanita kekuatan untuk membimbing suaminya, melalui masa kegentiran dan menjadi pelindung baginya. Bukankah tulang rusuk suami yang melindungi setiap hati dan jantung wanita?

Allah kurniakan kepadanya kebijaksanaan untuk membolehkan wanita menilai tentang peranan kepada suaminya.Seringkali pula kebijaksanaan itu menguji kesetiaan yang diberikan kepada suami agar tetap saling melengkapi dan menyayangi.

Dan akhirnya, Allah berikannya airmata agar dapat mencurahkan perasaannya. Inilah yang khusus Allah berikan kepada wanita, agar dapat digunakan di mana ia inginkan.

Hanya inilah kelemahan yang dimiliki wanita, walaupun sebenarnya, airmata!

Ini airmata kehidupan.

Wallahu A'lam...

my story on Rakan Muda IPT Anda Pilih "Bahagia @ Sengsara"

This is the 1st day of BBD, we woke a little bit late. Hehe…. That morning, we finished things to be done for the registration that afternoon. Suddenly, we were told that we could not use the main hall for our activity because some clash with a tournament. Not enough with that, we were asked to move to new secretariats room. We started to feel uncomfortable with the management there. After Zohor, we all got ready to welcome the participants from Setiu.

They are really different with what have been told by the management. They are not so bad. They look sincere and still childish. Respect to us the facilitators. We were very surprised to hear salam from them. I was the one feel ashamed suddenly. Supposedly, we start the salam first. They did not rebel when we did the custom, seized and saved their stuffs after registration. The custom was to make sure that they did not bring cigarettes, jewelleries, handphones, moneys and dangerous things. After Asar, they were briefed about activity that night. Then, they had dinner. After that, they back to their room to refresh themselves. At 7 p.m., they performed Maghrib and Isyak jamaah. They have Majlis Ucapan Aluan from Hajah Rokiah. I was not there because I was busy preparing the things for Ice-Breaking after that. At 10 p.m., the Ice-Breaking started. They needed to do find their groups, their facilitators and did activities in group. We finished the activities very late. The secretariats did pull their faces already.

After supper, we had post-mortem. Ape lagi….kene bamboo laaa….hampeh tul la urusetia. They complaint the way we run the programme. All we did is just listened to them at that night. Some were right, but more were not right actually. They should not condemned us and laughed at us. Is that a good behavior??? Laugh to other people who are still learning??But, it’s OK. First day…be patient! We did sentry that night. My team was the second one. We rounded the blocks and sit at musolla until 4.15 a.m. Effa felt asleep while sentry. Me and Nurul still reading the novels. The weather was not so good. The rains fall heavily. We couldn’t get to our room. So, we slept at musolla for a few minutes. When the rain became slowly, we run back to room and woke Che Pah and gang for sentry. She was mamai….hehehe… then, I continue sleep. ZzzZZzzzZZz….

ketibaan peserta


"akak ni x ngaku la dia kakak fasi kite"


-hafiz,aku n maarof-pencarian fasilitator berakhir


The 2nd day BBD, the rains fell heavily. We couldn’t do the outdoor games. After treasure hunt, they were asked to build a high and strong tower. Various shape of tower we could see. The winner got the BBD badges as token. They felt very excited. In the afternoon, they have slot ceramah about Dadah. I was assigned to be in secretariats room. I have kept the room cleans with K. Dila help.

For the Operation Castello, it was cancelled because the rains still heavy outside. We continued with the Life Graph. From this activity, we could hear and detect participants that have problem. Some of them cry when told us about their life. The facilitators should ready with this situation. At night, they listened to an ex-drug abuser from Pusat Serenti Besut. That man told about his life a little bit. He asked the participants to ask questions as many as they could. The participants looked very interested in his story. The session ended at 10.30 p.m.

We continued the post mortem after that. There were a lot of unsatisfactions regarding to the secretariats. We thought that they would do their job as secretariats only, but they were too much when interfering in the facilitating part. They asked us to do like what they said. They seem looked down the participants very much. They actually did not involve with the participants at all. They would show up during meal time and certain time only. We rebelled that night!! Sazwan la yg jd mangsa….we sentry again that night. My teams’ turn would be the last. Hahaha… you know what happened that night??? Scroll down and continue reading…

-pencarian harta karun berakhir!-


-bestnyer abg jun suap-


-discuss nk bina menara-


-antara menara yg dibina-


-penceramah utk slot kisah benar-

On 3rd day BBD, I woke up at 7.10 a.m. and felt very confused!! I supposed to sentry at 4 a.m. I looked around. I saw Effa and Nurul still sleeping. Why there was nobody woke us up to sentry last night??? I woke up and washed face. I went to Nadz room and ask explanation. Huhu… they did not sentry last night rupenye… I run to the musolla and saw the girls were awaiting us. They asked me and Effa a lot of questions. Haha..damn shameful!! Then, Mem came and replace us. The unforgettable moment la that day.

I entered the lecture room and found out that K.Imah was presenting about Rakan Muda. The participants knewa a lot about Rakan Muda. They have joined a lot of Rakan Muda activities before this. At 11 a.m., we departed to Kuala Besut for the next programme, the exhibition and the Community services at the village. The rain did not stop. It is continuos from yesterday. We have some activities there. They really enjoyed their day. They became very close to us minutes after minutes. I was with my team doing gotong-royong in Musolla nearby. Eventhough it was raining without stop, we finished our task well.

We back to KRM about 5.30 p.m. Something funny happened to me, Effa and Nurul. I laughed at Nurul because she back to KRM but she did not have room key. Lili kept the key. We reached to my room and when we tried to find out my room key, I was realized that my key was in another bag and that bag in K. Aida and K. Dila room!!!!! Huhu…so, the it was Nurul’s turn to laugh at me! Hahaha… we couldn’t stop laughing remembering our story..

That night, we were served with the performance by the participants. They were very talented. We did not expect they could do the act so well. We were really impressed that time. Az and Elli were announced as the Best Actor and the Best Actress respectively. My team got number 3. I congratulated them upon their work hard. Congratulations my dear!! For the last night, we decided not to sentry but we needed to wake up earlier to wake them up. Then, we went to bed. We were sorry to all facilitators because the unexpected things happened earlier morning..hehehe…


-timbang bola tinggi2-


-pertandingan makan biskut jagung-


-posing je lebih drpd wat keje-


-group KATAK perform for malam kebudayaan-


-me with my KATAK's gurls.tetibe rama-rama sesat kt situ-

On the last day, I woke up at 5.30 a.m. and went to musolla. We performed the Subuh prayer jamaah. After that, we were allowed to get back to room and prepared for the Physical Training. I returned to room at 6.30 a.m. and get back to call them for PT at 7 a.m. I waited Sazwan’s call before directed them to somewhere else because it was still raining, but there was no information from Sazwan. I called Sazwan and he cancelled the PT because the weather was not so good and there were no enough space for other activity. He asked us to go breakfast at 7.30 a.m. Then, me and Nurul chatted with the girls. They were so funny.

After that, we went to Dewan Makan to have breakfast. We waited for the boys until 8 a.m. but they did not show up. Before that, Nurul already woke Sazwan up, but then we knew he continued his nap! Mem and I decide to go to boys hostel and woke them up. Hahaha…seriously they are still sleeping at that time. Mem managed the participants and me went to the boy facilitators rooms and woke them up. I called Azman to make sure he woke up.

The worst thing happened that morning was the first slot for this morning would start at 8.30 a.m. and at 8.15 a.m., Mem told me she did not know what to do. Huhu…. She told me that the projector is with En. Amir…jeng3….nice thing to hear!! Then, I asked her to wake up MC or she just prepared to be MC. She said she did not mind. I ran to En. Amir’s room to ask for the projector. Thanks God, I met K.Imah on my way to his room. I asked K.Imah to get the projector from En. Amir. Then, I ran to lecture room and set up for that slot. K.Imah came and gave me the projector and Sidi came brought his laptop. Effa came at last to be the MC. When everything is ready, I called the presenter to enter the lecture room. I realized the drink for the presenter is not served yet. I asked Nurul to get it from the secretariats room. At last…we did our job very well. Who might think that actually most of the facilitators have not taken their bath yet. The ‘kelam-kabut’ situation has been solved with the cooperation, toleration and willingness to help among of us. Thanks to all.

For the closing ceremony, I did not attend because I was called by the secretariats to group the UMP stuffs at one side and JBSNT stuffs at one side. Then, it was the peak of our patience to JBSNT and secretariats behavior. They denied our rights from having stuffs and apparatus of the programme. I was told that the stuffs are ours not theirs. They unsatisfied with us. They seized a box of A4 paper from us in front of us without discussing with us! How immature them in handling this thing… Our problem did not finish. We lost a walkie-talkie. We looked for it all around KRM and bus. We did ask the participants if they mistook. You know who and where it is found?? En. Amir found it under the sofa in lecture room. It was very impossible the walkie-talkie was there!! You think sendiri la…..after that, we left the KRM Besut without saying goodbye to the secretariats. Some of them did not show up in front of us. I reached home at 8 p.m. that night and fell asleep very soon.


-maaruf,me n KATAK-


-plus zaim,man,n wan-KATAK mmg disygi..hehehe..

The Program Rakan Muda IPT: Anda Pilih Bahagia Atau Sengsara is the best programme I have ever joined. Why? Because I worked with different peoples and facilitate the youths. I was very happy to know the SRM team and others. They are nice actually if we treat them nicely. We could be very close at there. I love you guys. Sazwan, thanks for giving me chances to be a part of this team…. You are really a naughty,nice brother of mine!!

-my brother Sazwan bin Sahar-

The Days of T.O.T in Program Rakan Muda IPT Anda Pilih "Bahagia @ Sengsara"

lunch at benteng


at kuala berang

This programme is held for 4 days from 18-21 November 2008. We went there 2 days earlier. On Sunday, 16 Nov 2008, we departed at 12 p.m. by BUS UMP. The drivers were Abg Ishak and Abg Affendi. We got our lunch at Benteng, Kuantan. Then we continued our journey to Besut at 1.30 p.m. We stopped for Jama’ Zohor and Asar at Kuala Berang mosque. Its true name I do not know. We did find its name but it’s not stated anywhere at the mosque. We reached at Kompleks Rakan Muda Besut at 7 p.m. The first thing that we did there was to eat dinner that have been prepared. The meal was rice with Ikan Singgang+Budu+Sambal+Sayur Goreng. We were very full that night. Then we checked in to our room. I was one room with Farhana (Effa).



waiting for checking in


briefing from En. Wan Marisa

At 9 p.m., we had a briefing about the programme by En. Wan Marissa, the officer from JBSNT. We introduced ourselves to everybody in the lecture room. Then, I conducted all to check the stuffs that we need during programme. We realized there were so many things that are not enough for the programme eventhough we did give them the list of the things needed about a fortnight ago. We requested the things needed once again and submit it to En. Amir, the head of secretariats tomorrow morning. We just wrapped the presents and hampers that night. I’ve done the checklist of UMP things before we finished. We got to bed at 1 a.m.


preparing for the hampers

On the second day, 17th November 2008, we had T.O.T (training of trainee) all day long. After Subuh, we gathered for physical training. Effa lead us for Poco-Poco. Huarghhh….eventhough I do not like Poco-poco, I did it very well maa…Huhu..I hope UMPians just do this for light training only, not for big activities. Why?? Ask me directly… In the morning, we were briefed about the modules that would be practiced during the real one.


Physical training


Before lunch, we were given the partner for LDK throughout BBD. I was paired with Maarof. Sazwan gave us a big task. He asked us to serve the lunch for our partner and need to know 5 things about him/her. The second task is OK, but the first one….huhu…so tough..How can Sazwan do this to us???!! However we still did the task. But you can see my face that time!! Blushing!! Huhu..seriously…I never did this. Consequences, I cannot talk to Maarof the whole day. I couldn’t eat very well too. Pity him.. he got all informations about me. I just asked him a few question. I was prayed that I would not be the person Sazwan would ask about the partner.. Huhu..but I was wrong. Sazwan asked me!! I told what I know laa…hehe..sorry Maarof. I’m a shy person actually. Hehe..


hidang..jgn x hidang!!

At 2 p.m., we listened to Mr. Amir’s experience about being a good facilitator. Honestly, I did not listen about what he said that afternoon because I was so sleepy and tired. And also, I had a not good impression to him. Sazwan realized that!! Haha.. he miscalled me to awake me. Late that afternoon, we went to Pantai Bukit Kluang. We just snap and snap the pictures, captured the memories in the DSLR and phone memory. At night, we just have sharing experiences with other members. Sazwan, me and some others who have been facilitators before this, shared something to motivate and welcomed all new facilitators. Then, we slept.


effa,nurul n me!

Program Rakan Muda IPT: Anda Pilih Bahagia Atau Sengsara

Hmm… Where should I start? Let me begin by introduce you about this programme. Rakan Muda programme is launched in order to involve the youths to the society. Youth will work together with local communities to carry out various activities. This involvement will raise the role of youth in society and bring about overall development to communities. One of the programme is the Program Rakan Muda IPT: Anda Pilih Bahagia Atau Sengsara.

The objectives of this programme is to:-
• To give knowledge about the drug abusing among society today
• To tell the society about the consequences of drug abusing
• To increase the involvement of society in minimizing the drug abusing at any level
• To increase the unity among society by encouraging them to involve in activities

This programme is a done with cooperation with Ministry of Higher Education by IPT students, national agencies as well as private agencies and local NGOs. The IPT students act as volunteers, who will give the service in motivating the youths that joined the programme. They were chosen to be catalysts and pioneering this programme based on their ability in intellectual, communication skills an cooperation with society. The intellectual sharing is expected will increase the awareness of society about drug abusing.

UMP has been chosen to conduct this activity in Besut, Terengganu. 20 students have been given the responsibilities to be facilitators. They are selected by the interview session about 4 months ago. I was invited by the Project Manager to be the logistic committee member for this programme. I did not think twice, then I accepted his request. That time, I did not think about other committee members as long as I do not know them. Its OK as long as I have Sazwan, my little brother.

Actually why I accepted his request erk??? I think it is because he had mentioned before this, most of programme he joined in UMP, I always there. Hehehe….Expoconvo’08, KAFs, K-DIDIK, Program Bubur Lambuk, Journey to Phuket and now BBD. They did the meeting to discuss about the programme while me and Sazwan at Phuket. So, I never know them until the final exam finished! Huhu… sory geng! However, I always helped Sazwan in doing the modules for the faciliatators. Seriously, I think I should learn more to be a good facilitator and preparing the modules. My knowledges are not enough yet. So, I need to join more activities like this. I’m offering myself to be with you in any programme!!Hehe….



the facilitator with the participants